Why is Domestic Violence Normalized in Hispanic Communities?
By Ashley Sanchez
In reflecting on Domestic Violence Awareness Month and Hispanic culture, many people growing up in Hispanic households would agree that they grew up with their mothers accepting abuse from their partners —or experiencing domestic violence themselves.
Domestic violence is very normalized within Hispanic culture, and a big root of the problem is "machismo", a patriarchal standard that is pushed on men and boys. Many young Latinos and Latinas grew up with men in their lives upholding ideas that women aren’t human beings and only exist for their servitude.This mindset is very harmful within Hispanic communities, because young women start to believe that being loyal, serving your husband, and trusting the word of God will help you solve your problems with your partner. Instead of helping the victims, many people in these communities decide to turn their backs on their family members so that reputations remain unscathed.
According to Ezperanza United, about one in 12 Latinas (approximately 8.6%) have experienced intimate partner violence within the previous 12 months. Factors like machismo, familial pressure, and immigration status can silence victims, making it even harder to seek help or report abuse. Religious beliefs may also stop some Latinas from using services because they believe that marriage is sacred which prevents many from considering divorce or separation, even in unhealthy or unsafe situations. Divorce in Latin culture comes with harsh judgment, especially for women. A divorced Latina with children often faces criticism, being labeled negatively if she has kids with multiple partners, while men rarely face the same backlash when starting over.
Domestic violence isn’t just physical; it’s about control, intimidation, and manipulation. Yet, when women leave abusive relationships without visible bruises, their reasons are often dismissed. Abuse is abuse, no matter the form, and no one should have to justify their safety.
Normalizing abuse doesn’t just harm individuals, it weakens the Hispanic community and makes it a cycle of abuse across generations. By challenging machismo, advocating for better sex education, and demanding accountability from leaders, we can create a future where no one has to choose between their safety and their culture.
For those who are suffering: you aren’t alone and what you’re going through is not your fault. Leaving takes strength, but you have that power. Your future can be free from fear if you reach out, seek support, and know that you deserve safety and happiness. You are stronger than you realize.
If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, there is help available:
NYC 24-Hour Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-621-HOPE
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